So Mad Right Now...

I think once you hit a certain age, drinking ridiculous amounts, getting stranded at a place you've never been before, and having no ride home, should be a thing of the past. Of course for Andy this apparently isn't so. He went out with his friends tonight, got ridiculously wasted, and now he is at some girls house, drunk as can be, with his ride in bed with a girl. WTF?! First off, I am pissed at Andy because he never called to tell me what was going on! I called at 2:30 (when he was supposed to be home) and he said he was at the Dinkytowner (even though the DT closes at 2 on Tuesdays...), then I call an hour later and he is at some random house and he sounded like he had been sleeping. Of course when I ask him what is going on he gives me all these weird stories, saying he's in Mendota, then St. Paul, then 2 blocks from the Dinkytowner...okay???... Then he says his ride is at the Dinkytowner helping close, then quickly changes that story to his ride is in bed with some girl. So, I don't really know what the situation is, all I know is that Andy isn't coming home tonight, and had I not called, I'm pretty damn sure he wouldn't have called to tell me which pisses me off more than you can imagine.

I hate when Andy gets this drunk. He becomes so irresponsible and stupid that it's almost embarrassing. I think in college it's one thing...but he's almost 26, I think it's time for him to grow up and start being a bit more responsible. I can never sleep when Andy goes out with his friends, usually everything is okay and he's home on time, but it is nights like this that I dread. I have no idea where he is, who he is with, or what he is doing.

Now it is 4am, I haven't slept, and I was supposed to work today. I obviously had to cancel the job which pisses me off, but there was no way I'd be able to function with less than 2 hours of sleep.

Man I am just so mad right now. I realize a lot of this is not Andy's fault, it's his idiot friend who obviously cared more about sleeping with some girl than getting Andy home, but seriously, had Andy called me earlier I could have picked him up (he's too drunk to even give me directions now...) or he probably could have just demanded his friend drive him home earlier and none of this would have happened! I guess I'm just really mad at the fact that he got sooooo drunk and didn't call. Had I actually fallen asleep, I can't imagine how worried I'd be waking up in the morning with him not being there. In keeping with my new years resolutions I'm trying to be less angry and explosive about the whole situation...I just hope I wasn't being lied to about the events of this evening. I trust sober Andy, but wasted Andy is a completely different story.