I have thankfully snapped out of my blah mood! I realized that in every relationship there are ups and downs and I just kinda have to go with it. I accepted that Andy will never clean the bathroom but I have realized that if I remind him nicely to take dishes upstairs or to do laundry he will do it and I don't have to stress about it!
We have decided to go out on more dates. This has also contributed to my high spirits! For a while there we rarely went to dinner or did much of anything and that was starting to get depressing! I LOVE being taken out every once and a while...it makes me feel important! :)
I'm just very happy Andy and I are back to normal. I looovvve him so much! I think he's made more of an effort to make me feel special and loved ever since I told him I didn't feel like I was really a priority in his life. I have also realized that I need to start doing more things for me and stop worrying so much about him. On days he works late instead of sulking and being all crabby that I hardly get to see him I need to start doing things I like that I usually wouldn't do if he was home....like scrafting or reading or working out more or watching hours and hours of sex and the city :) I need to start enjoying my time alone!
7 years ago